I am very sorry for your loss. I think many of us, even

by Hobie , Shenandoah Valley of Virginia, Wednesday, November 02, 2016, 18:46 (2881 days ago) @ ~JM~

if we don't know about it yet, have lost such a person in similar circumstances. Perhaps not similar in that they went out and committed violent acts on others, but similar in that they and their lives "came apart" and they passed too young. People with addictions, untreated health problems, depression, traumatic events in their lives and so forth who have reacted by allowing disease to take its course or actively taking their own lives. It is very sad, can be very depressing, but it is seldom something over which we had any hope of exercising any control what-so-ever.

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Sincerely,

Hobie